Do not tell her what she can/cannot do. She is allowed to make decisions for herself, just like you are for yourself. Stop getting mad over silly things you shouldn’t get mad about. (Being friends with an ex, going to a party and having some fun with friends, going to an event without you, etc. ARE NOT things you should be getting mad about. Unless she is actually doing something wrong (i.e. hooking up with someone, cheating, etc.), there is no reason she should not be able to do those kinds of things. - Telling her what she can/cannot do. - Not allowing her to make decisions for herself. - Getting mad at her for things like being friends w/ an ex, going to a party with friends, going to an event without you, etc. - Being violent towards her. These are things no girl deserves. She should be able to do what she wants to do. If she loves you as much as she says she does, she would never do anything bad to hurt you.