Do not tell her what she can/cannot do. She is allowed to make decisions for herself, just like you are for yourself. Stop getting mad over silly things you shouldn’t get mad about. (Being friends with an ex, going to a party and having some fun with friends, going to an event without you, etc. ARE NOT things you should be getting mad about. Unless she is actually doing something wrong (i.e. hooking up with someone, cheating, etc.), there is no reason she should not be able to do those kinds of things. - Telling her what she can/cannot do. - Not allowing her to make decisions for herself. - Getting mad at her for things like being friends w/ an ex, going to a party with friends, going to an event without you, etc. - Being violent towards her. These are things no girl deserves. She should be able to do what she wants to do. If she loves you as much as she says she does, she would never do anything bad to hurt you.
i don’t even want to bother explaining why i feel this way right now.
If I ever wanted to be left alone (whether I was angry, frustrated, upset, sad, or just because) … I would always leave my phone at home and head to the library or to Chapters and just read. Indulging myself in books really helped to clear my mind and to calm me down. And knowing that nobody could reach me actually felt kinda nice.
I really need to go do that more often again.
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I suck with words, but sometimes words aren’t the thing. Love isn’t about words, it’s about what you do. And what I did, running away, it was stupid. We both know love is a big, scary, evil concept. But if you feel it, it’s going to follow you around like a hungry dog. I didn’t mean to say that love is a dog. I just mean I’m not going anywhere. I love you. If love beats us up, lets just beat it up right back. We can do this. If you’re ready to make the jump, I’ll be right there to catch you.
What are some of my biggest pet peeves (things that seem “little” or like “no big deal” to you/others that can really make me tick)? (Hint: one is hypocrisy)
How would you feel if the roles were reversed and I acted the way you did?
I’m the girl who prefers one rose instead of a dozen. I’m the girl who would rather stay in on a Friday night than go to a wild party with random strangers. I’m the girl who wouldn’t make you wait on her hand and foot, but would do anything to make you happy. I’m the girl who would enjoy having a movie night rather than going to some fancy restaurant. I’m the girl who would rather stay up all night sharing secrets than going out and getting drunk. I’m the girl who won’t make you hold her bags, but would rather hold your hand instead. I’m the girl who will love you more than anyone can possibly dream of. I’m the girl who would give the world to see you smile.
